This post started before Pesach but I never finished it up, so bare with me.
Before Pesach
Chevron Chevron Meaz Ulitamid Chevron!We had a Bar Mitzvah in Hevron for our good friends Michael and Ilana Fischbergers son Gabi. They arranged to have buses go from Efrat where they live. So Turs. morning we drove to Efrat from RBS at 7:45AM and got there 8:15AM when the buses were supposed to leave. B"H we got a great spot a the Efrat Mtnas right behind the bus. Most people were from Eftat and did not have cars. Some came from Jerusalem, and some friends from the US as well.
Both Grandparents came fro the US, David and Hanna Fischberger and Rabbi and Mrs. Avi Weiss from the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale. The Fischbergers are old time family friends with my in laws, and Elkie and my former employer both at the Hebrew Day School of Baldwin where Elkie taught a while and I ran a choir and at Camp Lavi where Elkie did Chinuch and I was the music director for a number of summers.
Elkie pointed out that she is amazed the on a Thursday morning 3 bus loads of people were just heading out to Chevron for a bar Mitzva. In the sates you can only do that on a Sunday and expect people to show up. Another example of how life resolves around life in Israel.
When we got to Mearat Hamachpela for Shacharit, I saw an Israeli couple taking pictures of each other and offered to get a shot of them together. On our way in the fellow asked me if it's ok for a Kohen to enter Mearat Hamachpela??? good question I didn't know, so I quickly called Benzi Thee our cousin who is a Kohen he infomed me the Rav Dov Lior said basically it's fine in most of the place. Although there are different rooms for all the Avot and Imaot, the actual cave is under the floor away from where we were. The fellow was happy to here that.
During duchening I saw Rabbi Weiss go up as one of the Kohanim and realized that he agrees it's fine for a Kohen. Rabbi Avi Weiss is very involved in Jewish activism especially of behalf of Israel. When shacharit was over I reminded him of the following story:
1st some background
When we were in camp Lavi one summer, and I had just started learning about Yishuv Eretz Yisrael by picking up some seforim in the Kollel like "To Dwell in the Palace" plus I was always concerned about what was happening in Israel like many of you reading this in Chul are. At that time I really started getting interested in the whole idea of Aliya, But I truly had a complete lack of Torah guidance on the subject of Aliya.
I tried to Explain to Elkie in the Yeshivas I went to growing up not only did we not sing the Hatikva EVER or do anything on Yom Haatzmaut, we didn't even know what they they were. They were never discussed it in Yeshiva of Spring Valley or any of the high-schools I went to. We learned about Yishuv Eretz Yisrael and Aliya about as much as Quantum Physics.
Baruch Hashem my parents decided to move to Israel from 1980-1984 at least we had a taste of Israel. Plus on Yom Haatzmaut we went to some parks and heard the "H" word Haatzmaut. I learned the Hatikva as a musician playing gigs for Shuls that wanted me to sing it.
Back to the story
So Rabbi Weiss came to Camp Lavi for a Shabbos and he is gona speak for the counselors. That would be to a bunch of single guys and girls who are interested in guys and girls. Being the open minded person I claim to be, I decided to see what he can possibly say that would have any interest to these kids. If you never heard Rabbi Weiss speak, think of him as an Uncle you like who really cares about you and talks to you like you were his only grandson. To my surprise the room was packed, (maybe it was mandatory for counselors to show up)
First he asked what is a Zionist? Then he explained it is someone who believes in the idea of the Jewish people returning to the Land of Israel and does so! He continued so I can not even consider myself a Zionist since I live in the US. The most I can say is I support Zionists.
Then He looks around the room and asks everyone with a serious and sincere tone, what are the Jewish peoples job here in this world??? Wow was it quite. a few people mumbled to do Mitzvos or whatever, didn't sell well. When everyone gave up. He quoted the Navi that says we are supposed to be "a light onto the nations" Or Lagoyin. or as Moshe Feiglin more specifically signs all his letters לתקן עולם במלכות שדי "To perfect the world in the Kingdom of Hashem" from Alenu.
R. Weiss continues, in order for US to be a NATION that is a light onto the Nations, Hashem gave us a land called Eretz Yisrael in which to BUILD this exemplary nation. This can not be done in Riverdale, Long Island, Brooklyn or NJ it must be done in Israel. In other words Hashem gave Am Yisrael, Eretz Yisrael to fulfill it's destiny. That is our purpose in this world.
(Then continues R. Weiss), If I can go back in time and change one thing, I should have made Aliya when I was younger. (The room was dead silent), It's not that I haven't done good things here in the USA (which he has done plenty) it's just that I am not part of that Jewish destiny here. (I wasn't blinking). Then he continues, well you can say why don't I go now??? your right, I can go now. BUT it's much harder when you get older, I have a community here, commitments family. He continued, You guys are all single and young, if you want to go a college here and get a degree no problem go for it, but after that SERIOUSLY consider making your future in Israel and be part of Jewish destiny forever, It's MUCH easier to do this when you are young.
I was in a state of shock. I NEVER heard a Rabbi speak so frankly about Israel and Aliya especially admitting that he made a mistake about this or anything for that matter. In the Yeshivas I went to Rabbi Avi Weiss would probably not even be considered a serious Rabbi, yet I KNEW that he was speaking the Emet (truth) and this was the Torah and Hashems perspective on the issue. I told Rabbi Weiss that his passionate speech was the straw the broke the camels back for me. He appreciated the feedback, I then asked when he is joining us, he said B"H soon.
Hashem should help him get here soon.
I was at the Bank on Friday and picked a number to get in line, it was number 770. Since it was at number 739 I figured I have about a 10 minute wait. So I took my ticket with me got some fresh Norwegian Salmon from Dubi Dagim for sushi then went back to the bank. When it was my turn I showed the bank teller my number and said I guess I'm Chabad today. She got the joke an laughed. In case you don't know Chabad's head-courters are located at 770 Eastern Parkway in Crown Heights. Plus in Kabbala there is a lot of significance to the number 7, 7 days of the week, 7 years to Shmita, 7 cycles to Yovel. Sufice to say Habad puts a lot of significance to 770. To be an all good sport, I stopped by the Chabad Shul located at the bottom of the Merkaz (Shopping Center) and left the 770 ticket on a bookshelf, who knows maybe it will make someones Shabbos. I like the daily simple little things in Israel that can only happen here. I don't think Stefanie at Capital One in Flushing would understand what 770 is.
The only story I can share about 770 is when we went to Ariella Morahs wedding Nechama Katlarsky who taught her at Gan Chamesh Chabad of the 5 towns. It was raining the entire time. However the Chuppah was set to be outside of 770 rain or shine. All the people were at the chuppah with Umbrellas including us. There aren't that many other people we would have stood outside with umbrellas for at their chuppah, but Morah Nechama is very special and we would stand in the rain for her. As she came out of the building, We saw the wind blowing the clouds away, and it stopped raining. She walked down the isle, went though the chuppah, Not a drop of rain, then after the chuppah was over, her chosson stepped on the glass we all went inside and the rain resumed.
טסת שנתי
Ulpan time do you know what טסת means?
Ok times up...
TEST
hweeeeeeewww that was tough!
A written test is a מבחן but a car test is a טסת!
Something you do not look forward too. Anyway I go for may annual test or in the US inspections, after a whole fiasco of getting the car approved when I imported it last year I thought this would be easy. WRONG! Think again. I took Yehuda with me to the test, thought it would be fun. The guys at the test place were nice and friendly I was chatting with them about the car, I showed them the "AISH" licence plate on my dashboard had some small talk, I thought everything was fine. When I was done they told me to go to the office to pay. The lady shows me the paperwork with about 7 violations! Needs turning signals on the side, change the direction of the tailpipe, a fire extinguisher, safety vest, rear reflection stickers, a blown bulb, and Shinu Mivne. Apparently the car was registered the wrong way and I had to change the registration! in Talpiyot Jerusalem. I went to My mechanic across the street. It was Tur. he told me to leave it by him he will fix it all up, to make sure he is in a good mood I told him to change the oil while he's at it. I switched to synthetic oil in Israel, which you change one a year and is more expensive. It should have been about 1000NIS total. Yehuda and I were now stuck in Beit shemesh with out transportation home, I tried hitching but did not succeed, so we walked to the MAIN entrance of Beit Shemesh by BIG shopping center and got on the 14 bus. Yehuda likes the bus, which goes through the entire Beit Shemesh Rama Alef and Beit. 50 min later we were home. When we were getting off I asked if there was a more direct line and was told the 12 goes from BIG though the back-road to RBS-A about half the time, next time.
Sun they call me to come down to get the car, Motti the owner shows me the tie-rods by the front wheels were very loose so he changed them and did a wheel alignment, it was over 4000NIS in total big difference. The car does feel good now. It would have been nice to have known this before getting there. I go to Jerusalem to the old Misrad Hrishu to find Gal. Gal means wheel and this guy in in charge of approving all the wheels in Jerusalem. Perfect name for him. He looks at the paperwork and looked at the car, then asked who approved this car? I said YOU! so he made a face went inside wrote some stuff up, then told me to go have the car weighed. I zoomed out found the place had it weighed, about 2000 kil. Went back to him, he then approved it again but changed the tile to a commercial vehicle. Apparently that what needs to be done for all Vans. He must of messed it up the 1st time.
Yosef just had tournaments for Kong Fu and is getting better at flips and cartwheels. He gets to practice with Yehuda quite a bit too.
Right before pesach Ani Levin A"H had an Hakamat Mazeva (Unavailing) at the Beit Shemesh Cemetary. I went. Her brother Avi Feldman and his son Heshy Feldman were in for Pesach as well as Ani's daughter Aviva & Zalmie Unsdorfer from England along with the Thees and some other people.
The in-laws are here!
That's right my in-laws came for Pesach they decided to keep 1 day like we do in Israel.
That's the position of the Chacham Tzvi, Rav Kook, Rav Salanter of Jerusalem, and my Rav, HaRav Dovid Bar Haim. They say it doesn't matter who you are or where you live, when you are in Israel you keep 1 day, when you are in Chutz Laaretz you keep 2 days. That is the Takana, like duchening and all other matters.
They had a great time enjoyed the Seder. They couldn't get over how Yosef read the whole Hagada and understood what was going on. We explained that he understands Hebrew plus learned all of Shemos which is in the Hagada quite a bit, so he knows what's going on.
1st day chol hamoed we went to Genay Yehoshua or known as Yarkon Park in Tel Aviv. Yehuda brought his NEW bike that Grandma got him. It was very nice, my mother-in-law didn't seem to have a problem hanging out in the park instead of having a 2nd seder and 2nd day yom tov.
The next day we went to dear Park in the gush with the boys. They have the 2nd longest zip line in the world, it goes from one mountain to the next.
Yehuda is Bob the builder Jr.
And loves to hold and touch pets
It was a bit sad to see this sign, which belongs in Gush Katif.
When we were done we made a BB'Q in a park in the Gush.
Ari Walfish (Big one) from Monsey Favie and Chanies son came to us for Shabbat, and seemed to have a nice time. We showed him Shiras Math in Hebrew, he seemd to be the only one who understood it so far. We'll show it to my dad when he comes for Shavuoth.
Ari Walfish Jr. Our nefew Naftoly an Yales son came to Israel with his Safta, he stayed by us for a week. He is Yosefs age and had a great time together.
He spent Lag B'omer here and helped prepare a big bonfire with Yosef and his friends.
Naftoly told me to do interesting things with Ari, things that will have an impact on him and that he would remember. So I took him and Yosef for the 1st time to the Har Habait! I took them to the Mikvah with me for the 1st time, and explained to them that the Har Habait is serious and not a playground. We met with Moshe Feiglin and some freinds and they behaved very well.
from the south
from the east
from the west
We told Ari his job is to come back to Israel next time with the rest of his family for good!
He promised to do so, were counting on Ari.
























































